Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Friday, October 1, 2010

The Girl Who Shopped

Once upon a time...
a girl went shopping.
She found a bag of really  
cool rubber-bandy thingies.
 She wanted them.
She wondered how much they cost.
 She was... SHOCKED!
Could this be right?
"I better check the other side," she thought.
 "Do you know how much these
rubber-bandy thingies cost?" She asked.
"I guess we're not buying them, huh?"
The End.

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Conversations

Queen Latifah was on Good Morning America this morning to talk about her new book. She said her favorite chapter was the one about her mother, a teacher. She went on to share that she has many unrelated brothers and sisters who were students of her mom, because her mom took time to notice these kids and have conversations with them.

Conversations, I will now suggest, are paramount in making a difference in people lives. I imagined these lost students of Queen's mother. Many probably had no one in their lives who cared to hear their thoughts, dreams or ideas. What is more discouraging than having no one in your life that cares to know your heart and soul?

I often have to remind myself to stop multi-tasking and look my boys in the eye to hear their new dreams about writing comic books, running a ranch, joining the Air Force, creating new recipes (like dessert pizzas). If I can't stop to listen to that stuff, why would they ever think I would stop to listen about the kids who's offering them drugs, or the pressure they are getting to have sex, or the deep depression they are facing from rejection.

Conversations reach farther than children too. There are so many adults whose hearts are ignored. Simple conversations that show you are interested in what happens in there lives can go a long, long way in healing a broken spirit.

Here's to really listening to the other broken souls of the world. You have a voice and I will listen.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Random Life Reminders

Yesterday I was reminded about various life truths.

1) There is absolutely no need to challenge or confront a person for being slow or tardy when he is about to drill your teeth. Diplomacy, flattery and kindness will always benefit you in that situation. (Thanks sis for walking me through that.)

2) (On the same topic, also from sis) Going to the dentist is almost always better than going to the gynecologist.

3) It is okay to be disturbed when the driver in front of you blatantly discards his/her candy wrapper out the window in rush hour (or any) traffic.

4) When a friend is observing something in your life and has some insight or input, it is always worth listening to, even if at first you don't agree. If it's a good friend, there is probably some valuable truth to consider.

5) Having people in your life available to help you navigate through tough moments is invaluable.

Peace.